I have come to a conclusion…many people who say they are not involved in cliques are the leaders of cliques without knowing it. For example, I know two people here. I am not saying names. I try and have fun with them, but they shut me down for fear that their older friends will no longer associate with them. I am not trying to point fingers, I am only saying what has come to my mind. Few people welcome new people here, and they immediately cast them off as dumb 5-year-olds, even if they are mature tweens. All this leads to one person being nice to you, even if that person is admired by the community. Despite the other people wanting to be like that considerate person, they will not associate with you. It’s all complex. As a warning to all new players: If you are learning the ropes here and ask if you should get a -1 Boston Terrier of the PP, they will ignore you. If you find a -11 Black Lab, they will love you until you sell it. This is called reality, kids.
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